The following talk is purely anecdotal, and while it may actually be true… it’s just my thoughts.
Make my day. - Dirty Harry. Classic line.
One of most harsh realities of life is that it goes by too fast.
But does it?
I have an observation/maybe a theory that the reason why time moves so slowly when you’re a kid and moves so fast as you get older is that you stop trying new things.
To lead an effective life and to make it easier on yourself. You build circuits in your mind and automate your life, but that also means your on autopilot, and you’re missing things. Your brain dumps the memory because it’s literally not important.
That’s why new experiences are critical.
Start with simple stuff.
Stop ordering the same shit. Change it up. Do the George Costanza.
Order new food off the menu.
Listen to music you’ve never listened before. Even if you don’t want to.
Watch a film that you don’t want to watch.
Try greeting someone a new way. Think of a new way to say hello.
Don’t worry about the awkwardness.
Awkwardness is what stops so many people from trying.
Ask the hard question. Open up and be honest.
Your days and weeks will feel more rich and more full.
The next step is to write these things down.
Reflect on them. What did you like?
What really bothered you?
what could you maybe do about it?
Can’t know if you don’t ask the questions.
Don’t live on autopilot.
Don’t outsource your thoughts and feelings to the endless scroll of phone time.
Creativity is critical to long life.
KR
